Saturday, December 29, 2007

Favorite Movies we all viewed in 2007

In order to make this list, all five Eby's must have seen this movie during the year it is nominated. There are a few movies that have been nominated by individual Eby's that were disqualified because they were not viewed by all of us.

For example: Spiderman 3, Amazing Grace, National Treasure 2, Alvin and the Chipmunks and other popular movies were seen by some but not all Eby's.

Here is the list for 2007:
  1. Ultimate Gift ( Carmen, Mom )
  2. I am Legend ( Adam, Dad )
  3. Evan Almighty ( Becca )
  4. Bourne Ultimatum
  5. Shooter
  6. Wild Hogs
  7. Astronaut Farmer
  8. Deja Vu
  9. Blood Diamond
  10. Surf's up

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Bennigan's Restaurant ( Take 26 )

Every year since 1982, Jackie's friends from NorthWood High School have picked a restaurant in Northern Indiana to meet and catch up with each other between Christmas and New Year's Day. Mark and Michelle picked the Elvis room at Bennigan's this year.

This was one of the smallest groups, but we still had fun.

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Fayette County Public Schools listed as #16

As a parent of three students in Fayette County Public Schools and a friend of many teachers in Fayette County, I was pleased to hear that Forbes magazine listed Lexington as one of the top 20 places in America to receive a public education.

Well done, Fayette County!

Forbes Top 20 Public Schools

Educators that attend Tatesbrook that are fighting the good fight in the FCPS:
  • Duane Keaton
  • Jordan Johnson
  • Mike Brady
  • Robin Potter
  • Ronnie Brock
  • Tony Jones
Since Jackie and other "stay at home" mom's often receive little performance feedback, I think this would also be a good time to recognize all the volunteers that help make the school systems better in our community...

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Oh, we've got "T"rouble


Mothers of River City!
Heed the warning before it's too late!
Watch for the tell-tale sign of corruption!
The moment your son leaves the house,
Does he rebuckle his knickerbockers below the knee?
Is there a nicotine stain on his index finger?
A dime novel hidden in the corn crib?
Is he starting to memorize jokes from Capt.
Billy's Whiz Bang?
Are certain words creeping into his conversation?
Words like 'swell?"
And 'so's your old man?"
Well, if so my friends,
Ya got trouble,
Right here in River city!
With a capital "T"
And that rhymes with "P"
And that stands for Pool.
We've surely got trouble!
Right here in River City!
Remember the Maine, Plymouth Rock and the Golden Rule!
Oh, we've got trouble.
We're in terrible, terrible trouble.
That game with the fifteen numbered balls is a devil's tool!
Oh yes we got trouble, trouble, trouble!
With a "T"! Gotta rhyme it with "P"!
And that stands for Pool!!!

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Merry Christmas and a Happy 2008

In lieu of a lengthy letter, this year the Eby's wish you and yours a spectacular season celebrating the birth of Christ our Savior.
( Thanks also to the folks at OfficeMax )

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Dan poses as Charlie Brown


Dan Dedrick had family in from New York over the Thanksgiving holiday and the Herald Leader photographers got this shot of him hauling off a tree.

Front page article

Guess which co-worker turned him in?

Sunday, November 25, 2007

The World is Flat ( Missionary 3.0 )

The World is Flat.

I've been reading this book that compares Columbus' discovery of the world being round to the fact that today's world is flat.

Columbus was looking for a short path to India for trade back in 1492, but today, smart people from India, China, Russia and all over the world are learning and working effectively from wherever they are with businesses that were founded in the country that Columbus mistook for India.

Last night, I received an email from Michael Harrington who is serving as a missionary in Africa about how he taught an African family to use a yo-yo. That same night, I received an email from a friend with photos from a zoo that she had visited in Singapore.

Certainly, because of the factors that are discussed in this book and the experiences that I have had in the last 15 years and the last 15 days, I can truly say that the world is flat.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Happy Birthday Dad!

My dad turned 82 today. When I called to tell him Happy Birthday, he told me that the lady from Human Resources at Lycro Products asked him if he was really going to be 82 this weekend.

He responded with a short and affirmative, "Yep!"

She told him that he was a pretty incredible person to be working at his age.

As Dad was telling me the very short story, I was imagining what was going through the mind of the lady from HR and how different that a small company can be.

I do agree with her. My dad is an incredible person. He worked 37 years for the first company that employed him while he was working and living on Grandpa's farm and establishing his own home later.

He has now worked nearly 25 years at the second company.... that is loyalty.

Monday, November 05, 2007

Adam Recognized in Fayette County Newsletter

As a parent and volunteer guest teacher in the Fayette County Public School system, I believe it is important to listen to the leadership. The school superintendent really does a great job of communicating on a regular basis.

Here is the text from the "Kudos" section:

To Southern Middle School students Adam Eby, Tyler Farquhar and Lauren Shields for placing 7th in the Leadership Challenge team event during the 2007 National Technology Student Association (TSA) Conference.

Saturday, November 03, 2007

Old Men in the Balcony

It has just recently come to my attention that a peer of mine and I have been compared to the two old men in the balcony on the Muppet Show.

Having watched that show as a kid, I was sure that the people at work who made this comparison were mistaken.

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Shopping for transportation

This afternoon, Carmen and I drove around town looking at potential makes and models of cars that would be satisfactory to her. She started out with a Jeep Wrangler because it is different from her friends and it ties her to her cousins Heidi and Bethany.

Seeing how Carmen doesn't like us to leave any windows open in the mini-van and likes to have the temperature "just right" all of the time, I'm not convinced that a Wrangler is the right car for her.

Her Uncle Bill, her mother and Carmen all went to a car show in Cleveland in 2004 and saw a Pontiac Solstice and her Uncle Bill believes that is the car for her. I think it is a nice looking car, but I can't find any that are five years old with 80,000 miles.

Seeing how I bought my own first car for $1,500 when I was a freshman at Purdue, I have a hard time looking at these prices...

Vehicle Description
Blue Book Value
Candidate Price Candidate Miles
1999 Ford Tauras SE Sedan 4D
$3,625
$3,795 111,466
1999 Pontiac Grand Am SE Coupe 2D
$3,810
Not Priced 124,212
1999 Volkswagen Jetta GL Sedan 4D
$5,400
$7,450 88,732
1999 Nissan Altima SE Sedan 4D
$5,470
$5,900 127,473
1999 Volkswagen Passat GLS Sedan 4D
$6,745
$7,000 97,000
1999 Jeep Wrangler
$7,875
Not Priced 127,158
2006 Pontiac G6 GT Sedan 4D
$12,300
$11,950 49,035
2006 Pontiac Solstice Convertible 2D
$16,565
$21,977 16,517

She won't be able to drive by herself until April, so maybe I can buy a motorcycle and just let her use my Jeep.

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Community responds to a Tornado

What a Weekend for Nappanee and NorthWood High School!
  • Tornado Ravages Nappanee on Thursday night
  • Band Places 6th at State
  • Volleyball team won the sectionals (delayed to Saturday morning, and moved to Tippecanoe Valley)
  • Football wins thrilling first game of sectionals (delayed to Saturday night, and moved to Bremen)
  • 3000+ volunteers meet at NWHS on Sunday to help tornado victims

Wherever I have gone in the world in the twenty years since I have left, Wakarusa and Nappanee have remained home to me. One of the things that makes these Northern Indiana towns special is the community that is modeled to the world.

It doesn't matter if the community is modeled in the many small churches, a high school, a football team, an Amish heritage, a mega-size missionary church or the Amish people that still live simply and live at a pace that doesn't exist elsewhere.

Community springs to action when trouble comes.

Interesting links about the tornado and the community:

Celebrating Carmen's Birthday in Indiana

Bill and Cheryl invited us to the farm to have a hot dog roast on Friday night before the football game and then have a hayride on Saturday night and then have a family pork chop BBQ on Sunday afternoon after Dustin and Heather's first child Charlie was dedicated at Nappanee Missionary Church.

Those plans were adjusted by a Tornado, so we had a lot of extra time on Saturday.

I replaced a hard drive that was damaged due to the power outage and the phases of power restoration on a farm and Carmen washed Ben's steer.

Becca played with the goat.

When Jackie was Becca's age and Carmen's age, she cleaned the pig stalls in the pig barn that stood on the concrete foundation that now serves as a parking area in the background of Carmen's picture.

By Sunday afternoon, the tornado cleanup in Nappanee was well underway and four generations of the Mattern and Etsinger families plus three generations of Eby and McMillan families gathered in New Paris to consume a good portion of 55 pork chops cooked on the half barrels that crashed the hard drive on Saturday. (long story, involves a PTO generator and a welder)

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Marcus has a great game against LTMS

One of the things that I looked forward to the most about Adam's 8th grade year was the chance for him to play with Marcus Wilkerson.

Marcus and Adam were together in Children's Church for five years and his Dad helped me teach the class the year before he left for Afghanistan.

In this first photo, Marcus is pulling the pile forward while the football is exposed and in a position to be easily stripped away. The right side line backer is no where to be found.

In the next photo, you can see that Marcus got safely to the ground without having the ball stripped.

If you look closely on the right side of the pile you will see Adam showing up a second too late to strip the ball away from Marcus.

Playing ultimate frisbee with these two allows me to know just how competitive they are.

In this particular game, Marcus probably ended up on top of the individual effort while Adam's team ended up on top of the scoreboard 14 - 7.

I'll keep pushing these two to do better until they have a chance to play together at Tates Creek High School in two years for JV and three years for varsity.

This last picture is Marcus with a solo sack for a 10 yard loss to end the first half of play.

Southern Football Game ( a defensive struggle )

Adam had another decent defensive game but the score was a lot closer than anyone expected.

From his position of outside linebacker on a blitzing defense, Adam gets a few sacks per game. On this play, however, he leaves the running backs ( #32 and #30 ) and goes after the sweeping quarterback in trouble.

A risky play if the quarterback is able to get a pass off. In this case, it pays off. Adam is all about taking risks.


The picture on the left side is a linebacker's dream picture.

You can see the running back coming through an open hole wrapping the ball up in fear of being hit. Adam is #64 and Tyler Morris is #4.

If both ( or really either of them) had any forward motion to match the running back, this play would have finished perfectly with a crushing collision and a cleanup hit putting the running back down for no gain.
Since both of them were on their heals, Adam took the legs and Tyler took the shoulders and the running back got a few yards out of the play and got up happy about not being crushed.


Jacob Ivey (#84)is the defensive end to the left of the play dropping back in good position to help out in case of a fumble or a broken tackle.

Monday, October 15, 2007

Adam "celebrates" his birthday at home

Celebrating your 14th birthday at home by blowing out candles on a cake has never been so exciting...

Saturday, October 06, 2007

Ohio State at Purdue

Adam and I made a day trip to West Lafayette for Purdue's latest starting game in its very long history of football. Two undefeated titans clashed and Purdue ended up on the down side of the 23-7 score.

As we watched the two teams warm up from our lofty perch, we could tell that OSU was the real deal and it only took a few plays for the Buckeyes to demonstrate why they would again be #1 in the nation for a good portion of yet another season.

Purdue is a great team and they are having a great year, but it sure wasn't fun to watch them get beat that night. I bought a book about Joe Tiller to read a little more about the transformation that has occurred since he has been there. It is very interesting to hear about the poor boy from Toledo that went to Montana to play football.

Adam and I had lunch at Triple XXX Family Restaurant at Austin Mattern's recommendation. He said they had recently tried to upscale their food quality.

Before the game, we drove all over campus visiting bookstores to outfit our family's youngest Purdue fan and decorate his room. After accumulating more Purdue stuff than I have ever owned, Adam and I parked at the remains of the shuttered Smitty's Supermarket and played frisbee in the street for a while before heading to the engineering buildings and the fountain.

After the game, we drove back to Wakarusa to visit my mom who was recovering from back surgery. Adam and I got to the house about 1:30 AM and crashed in the basement.

After visiting with Mom and Dad for six hours, we headed back to Lexington. We were making great time traveling with the stereo blasting and all the windows open until we hit mile marker 141 on I-74 between Indianapolis and Cincinnati. While traveling along with speeding traffic and fortunately in the rightmost lane, the Jeep just quit on us.

A credit card and flatbed truck enabled us to get back to Lexington late that night.

Engineering Centennial 1888-1988

I took Adam to a lecture hall in the electrical engineering building and told him stories that I could remember.

Later, I took him to the basement to show him where the computer lab used to be ( and why there ever was such a thing as a computer lab ).

We were surprised to find a hall filled with pictures of Electrical Engineers from 1888 to 1988 and found my photo.

Here's the story behind the pictures:


1888 marked the graduation of Purdue's first two electrical engineers. In the next one hundred years, 20,272 men and women would join this select group granted Purdue Electrical Engineering degrees. Our Wall of Fame recognizes the first century of students to matriculate with bachelor, master, and doctoral degrees.


The "Nice Guys of Eta Kappa Nu" began producing class composites as a service project to the school using pictures taken from the Purdue yearbook, "Debris." Kent Fuchs, department head, had the composites installed in the hallway of the Electrical Engineering building in 2000. This pictorial history grew and became a source of enrichment to visitors, alumni and current students. Comments like, "Is that grandpa?", "Look, I can't believe my hair!", "I didn't know the school existed back then!" could be heard as people viewed the classes.


While the composites are impressive, they are incomplete (only including those people in yearbooks) and sometimes inaccurate (people appear in yearbooks other than their official graduation year). When it was decided to include the Wall of Fame on the Electrical and Computer Engineering website, Engineering Computer Network's Marian Delp agreed to manage the project and worked with students for forty months to scan 79% (16,014) of the images.


Difficulties were abundant as efforts were made to assure name and picture agreed. For example one record might list a person as "L. T. Smith" and another as "Lewis Tobias Smith" or "Lew Smith." Or the yearbook has a fall picture for "Sheila Marie Jones" and the registrar has a May graduation record for "Sheila Marie Wolfe," reflecting her married name. Placement of upper and lower case lettering was also inconsistent between sources: Dewitt versus DeWitt, or Del Costa versus DelCosta. Is all of the information accurate? Perhaps not, but as alumns submit correct information about themselves on the website, our accuracy can only improve.

Thursday, October 04, 2007

My Brother: Deputy Travis Junior

This past Sunday, Kent Billingsley told me that I looked like Deputy Travis Junior on Reno 911.

Since I have intentially deprived my children of cable TV in order to accelerate brain cell growth, I had no idea what he was talking about.

After a little research, I think that he could be my long lost brother. What an AMAZING story!

Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Carmen's Tates Creek JV Season is over

Carmen's sophomore year was packed full of games with playing time at the JV level and sitting time at the Varsity level.

Unlike last year when the same six freshmen played together every game with the same rotation to go 13-4, this years JV was an exciting different combination that varied depending on the level of competition, the availability of freshmen and sophomores that play varsity, and chances to develop varsity players in different positions. All in all, it was a very exciting year and winning games helps make it more exciting. The JV team finished with a record of 21-5-1.


Having completed five seasons of volleyball, there are plenty of roles that are not exciting. No one can make them look less exciting than Carmen.

I love jobs like score keeping, line judging, or running the scoreboard during games.

Worship Philosophy

At our life group ( aka small group ) ( aka cell group ) (aka shepherd group ) meeting tonight Kent asked us all to write down our worship philosophy and share it. I thought this was an excellent exercise since each individual has a very unique perspective to anything that occurs in the church. This is true whether it is something spiritual, something doctrinal, something religious or something trivial like the color of the carpet or something major like sitting in a pew that belongs to someone else.

So here's the way I see worship today:

Worship is a celebration of Christ that unites us with our creator.


We can be united or restored in isolation or in mass gatherings of strangers at coliseums. Our hearts can receive peace in coliseums and rejoice in solitude.


Creativity and worship can occur without Christ as the center, but it can not occur without Christ. After all, where does creativity come from if not from our creator?


The opening ceremony at each Olympic gathering is an example of a highly technical, complex, amazing worship of the human spirit, but it falls short of the Glory of God that exists when Christ is worshiped from our hearts.

Monday, October 01, 2007

Becca's first year of LTMS Volleyball

It is hard to remember the level of play that Carmen's team had in the sixth grade four years ago. I think Becca got more touches than Carmen because Becca's diminutive stature relegated her to the setter position.

One clear difference is that the officials have to stop the game to remind Becca that line judges can not cheer for their team and to stop using the line judge flag as a pom pom.

As seen in other posts, Carmen shows absolutely no excitement or motion when line judging. Drawing the attention of an official probably would have crushed Carmen.

Becca enjoyed playing with a few neighborhood girls that attended Veteran's Park elementary school with her. Volleyball seemed to help the transition from elementary to middle school.

One thing about the kids going to LTMS is that is so close to where I work that I can make more of the 5:30 games. I'm not sure if I ever made it to any of Carmen's sixth grade B Team home games at Southern. By the time I fought through traffic, it always seemed to be time for the A team to start playing.

Thursday, September 20, 2007

First Football Game of the Season

Fall is here when the first football game comes up. The weather was perfect tonight for watching Adam's new school play their first game.

They won 26-0 but it was one of the sloppiest first games I've seen in a while. His team has lots of talent if they can get it all going in the same direction at the same time. Adam had a sack and several tackles as a defensive end. The picture above is a decent tackle on a kickoff return.

Head is on the correct side, head is not completely down, wrapped up nicely around the waste but he dropped to his knees just a little early... maybe next time.

I do have to make an excuse for him. Leestown had a couple of offensive tackles that were twice his size, so I can understand taking a rest on his knees during the tackle.

Saturday, September 01, 2007

Tates Creek JV wins the 5 Star Classic

It was a long day which contained two battles with a very tough and tradition rich Ryle High School JV team, but the JV Lady Commodores walked away with the championship in the third game.

Playing seven matches in one day made the tournament tough from both a physical and mental fatigue standpoint. We were very proud of Carmen and all her friends. They played well together as a team and endured to the end.

Saturday, August 25, 2007

Boiled Frogs ( we all boil together if no one watches the thermometer as the temperature rises )

This is a very interesting video that was sent to me. It's interesting at many levels including the genuine responses of the people walking along Hollywood Boulevard. I don't know who this guy is, but he loves to paint people in a corner.

I'm sure most of the people that he interviewed just wrote him off as a whacko and went about their day. At least a few them listened.

Clearly, the people on the video were examples of people that had not completed rejected the truth that all of nature portrays and is seen in the reflection of our society.

It is ironic that Hollywood chooses to reinforce that Jesus Christ is Lord of All by not programming society to believe it is popular to take the name of Mohammad or Buddha in vain. In a way, the people that produced this video are only amplifying Hollywood's claims that Jesus Christ is Lord at the cost of the lives of the patrons who know no way out of the corner.

If you have ten minutes, paint yourself in a corner by watching this. I wonder what trail he would have taken me down...

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Two Volleyball + One Football = Busy Fall

Don't expect too many posts to the blog in the next two months...

Carmen made the Tates Creek JV & Varsity Volleyball team at Tates Creek High School
and is playing well as a defensive specialist in several games against traditionally strong Kentucky High School JV teams like Ryle, Manual and Boone County.

Adam made the Lexington Traditional Magnet School Football team as the "new kid" eight grader that already seems to know every teenager in the city of Lexington

Becca made the LTMS Volleyball team as a sixth grader. Lots of hard work with her big sister, mother and neighbors made this rather last minute decision to try out a success.

Practice and game overlaps occur every school night.

Sunday, August 05, 2007

Commissioning Service for Michael and Joe Joe

Michael and Joe Joe are gifts to our body. It was good to see their parents and family for the service and it reminded me of the hot afternoon that they were married at Tatesbrook a few years ago.

On that day, both of the air conditioner units in the sanctuary were out and the wedding was balmy. We had fans set up before and after the wedding to help move cooler air in from other parts of the building. As we commissioned them to head to Tanzania, they will soon be experienced longer periods of more uncomfortable conditions than they did on their wedding day.

I can't begin to think how much our family will miss Michael and Joe Joe. Even though they are much younger than Jackie and I, their contributions to the marriage group that we attended together were filled with wisdom beyond their years and always creative and full of love.

Michael has taught Adam everything that Adam knows about drumming in three years of lessons. Michael predicted that being a drummer would get Adam in trouble and he was right. Michael's love of music has inspired more than Adam within our family.

As I read "Lead Like Jesus", I knew that Michael, Joe Joe, Matt and Kim would all identify with the calling that compels us to serve as He did. As we studied this book together, it was Joe Joe that contributed the depth.

The commissioning service did not disappoint us. It was tremendously worshipful and creative. I loved the comparison of Michael and Joe Joe to Abraham and Sarah in Genesis 12 by all the speakers at the service.

As they depart from Haran, we are happy about the message they will carry and the packaging and delivery that has caused us to love them so.

Haran replies, "Good Bye Michael and Joe Joe!"

You can follow the ministry of Michael and Joe Joe on their blog: GoodbyeHaran

Sunday, July 15, 2007

Deep Spiritual Lessons from Camp

Adam got back from B.A.S.I.C. camp today and shared with us a video that demonstrated how serious he was at camp.

Matt, Kim and Brady Hudson were the leaders that took our youth this year. It is always a very special time to spend time with brothers and sisters in Christ.

Winding down after a week of work and study is normal.

Friday, July 13, 2007

Becca at Horse Camp

Becca was as Horse Camp all week. This was the only week of the summer where she was early to bed, early to rise.

While many of the other girls at camp had dreams of being equestrians, Becca just loved to spend time with her horse named Worthy. The equestrians brought crops to help develop their riding skills. Becca told us she didn't want one because she didn't like the idea of hitting a horse.

Jackie was there on the final day which included a party and activities like a slippy slide to cool off after the hot day. She looked around for Becca at the party and couldn't find her.

You might guess that she was found spending some more time with Worthy...

Becca reminds me of Mary not Martha in general ( an odd thing for an Eby ). Jackie's story about Worthy reinforces that.

I'm also reminded of the time that Jesus was "missing" and Joseph and Mary couldn't find him while they were traveling. They had to go back to the synagogue and drag him away from being about His Father's business. I imagine that Jesus was about Becca's age at that time.

Jesus grew in wisdom, in stature, and in favor of the eyes of God and the eyes of men. So is Becca.

Thursday, July 12, 2007

21st Wedding Anniversary

Twenty one years ago, Jackie and I were married. We celebrated this anniversary at Jonathan's at Gratz Park.

My brother, Keith, (upper right in this picture) selected the restaurant remotely from Washington, DC and paid for it as a Christmas present.

( Thank you, Keith, you really went beyond your responsibilities as the best man in our wedding )

While we were dining there in a quiet room over the best food in Lexington, I asked Jackie which of the 21 years was her favorite. Before I asked the question, I had already anticipated her answer and knew what my response was going to be.

Her answer, "My least favorite year was last year (2006)". ( and we both knew why )
I responded, "My favorite year is next year". ( because neither of us know why )

Everyone under the age of 25 in this wedding picture will have graduated from a university in the state of Indiana by this time next year when the little boy looking at his mother graduates from Purdue University.

Dustin, lower left, is about to become a father. It is only by the grace of God that his mother is able to participate in this joyous event of becoming a grandmother. Cheryl's health roller coaster and Heidi's marriage framed 2004 as the most difficult year that our family has faced.

Saturday, July 07, 2007

The First Kentucky Fried Chicken Restaurant

We have lived in Kentucky for 18 years and almost every where I go on the globe, when people hear where I live, it is common for them to ask me about Colonel Sanders and KFC.

The Bluegrass state of Kentucky is famous for horse racing, horse breeding, bluegrass music, coal mines, Mammoth Cave, Fort Knox and tobacco among other things, but Kentucky Fried Chicken gets global attention...

So on our trip home from Florida, we stopped at Harland Sanders Cafe & Museum to be able to say that we did. I must admit it was interesting.

The thing that stood out the most to me was the hand written poster that I believe captured the reason that Harland was successful in his business of serving customers.

The contrarian servant's heart skipped a beat when I paused to read it. I couldn't help but think that many small businesses, churches, organizations and corporations have chased fame, numbers, market share or other definitions of success until the easy way was buried in sand.

Here is the text from that poster:

The HARD Way

It is comparatively easy to prosper by trickery, the violation of confidence, oppression of the weak, sharp practices, cutting corners - all of those methods that we are so prone to palliate and condone as "business shrewdness."

It is difficult to prosper by the keeping of promises, the deliverance of value in goods, in services and in deeds -- and in the meeting of so-called "shrewdness" with sound merit and good ethics.

The easy way is efficacious and speedy - the hard way arduous and long. But, as the clock ticks, the easy way becomes harder and the hard way becomes easier. And as the calendar records the years, it becomes increasingly evident that the easy way rests hazardously upon shifting sands, whereas the hard way builds solidly a foundation of confidence that cannot be swept away.

Thus we builded. *


SANDERS COURTS AND CAFES

Asheville, NC
6 miles out on Knoxville Road

Corbin, KY
Junction US 25 - 25E-25W

* DICTIONARY:
Present participle and verbal noun.
To fashion or frame according to a systematic plan or by a definite process; to create; to BUILD a reputation.

Thursday, July 05, 2007

Last night on the beach


After dinner at Gasparilla's Grill with the whole family, Jackie and I dropped off the kids at the condo and headed to Sanibel Marina for Key Lime Pie at Gramma Dot's restaurant.

The Key Lime Pie was fabulous and the story behind the marina and Gramma Dot's life brought a personal side to the vacation that allowed Jackie to enjoy it even more. ( She really likes to read the history of every restaurant )

Gramma Dot loved the arts, loved education, loved people and loved the sea. She also loved Sanibel and inspired her children and grandchildren to build a Marina and restaurant in her name.

Florida Coast Comparisons

Left Side: Daytona Beach, Florida Atlantic Coast, Summer 2002, Mom taller than Carmen, Adam short hair, Becca and Mom wearing glasses

Right Side: Sanibel Island, Florida Gulf Coast, Summer 2007, Carmen taller than Mom, Adam long hair, Becca and Mom no longer need glasses.

Somehow, I doubt that I will be able to get the family to pose for this picture in another five years.

Last full day at Sanibel

We had some sun this morning. Jackie went for a walk on the beach while I stayed behind to play cards with Becca and do some reports for work.

After things warmed up a bit, and Becca beat me, we all went outside to enjoy the sun.

I made a sand wall for the picture with a little shovel that was more like a scraper than a shovel. The kids loved taking this picture. I'm so glad they were cooperative. ( NOT )

On the way back to the room, I snapped a shot of the Iguana that hangs out in the pond that surrounds the pool.

I looked for the tortoise but couldn't find him this morning.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Island Cow

We spend the afternoon relaxing and recreating by the beach. We all played volleyball. The girls beat the boys. Adam and I tried his new skim board. I was much more entertaining to watch than Adam because of the way my legs flew into the air after loosing my balance which sends me into a half cartwheel / half dive roll ending in a skidding side roll.

I also walked the beach about a mile to see if there were any better condos if we ever decide to come back. I liked the Casa Ybel and talked to a lady that had been there twenty years in a row. The buildings looked newer, the back porches faced the ocean and the shore had more shells than ours ( if that is possible )

Later, we headed to the Island Cow for dinner. We had a great waiter (Marvin) and had no trouble ordering tonight.










Lighthouse Cafe

This morning we had "the world's best breakfast" at the Lighthouse Cafe.

After breakfast, we drove out to the lighthouse to see where people would be gathering for the Fourth of July fireworks. There were people there at 11:00 setting up picnics for the afternoon and evening already.

While driving to the lighthouse and stopping at shops on the way back to the condo, the kids played video games. This is what they did on just about every 10 minute drive that we took on the island.

They missed a lot of island sites with their noses glued to the small video game screen.

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Cheeburger Cheeburger

I don't know if we have struggled more as a family to order at a restaurant than we did tonight at Cheeburger Cheeburger. Adam was so focused on the wall of photos of people that had consumed a 20 oz cheeburger, that he didn't see the flavors of shake on the menu or the wall or hear the waitress announce that "Raspberry Pie" Shake was the shake of the day.

When the waitress asked us what we wanted to drink, we couldn't respond because we were still trying to figure out which of the whole page of toppings we should put on our Cheeburgers. Adam was so overwhelmed that he order a Dr. Pepper Float instead of a shake.

Becca decided to forego the whole Cheeburger thing, but Carmen decided to go for the Cheeburger with no cheese at no extra charge for removing the cheeze.

Dolphins on the beach

Adam had just headed into the condo because "there is nothing to do here", when Jackie called us out to see the dolphins. Everyone on the beach was at the shoreline and some even thought they could slowly drift out toward the dolphins.

Some people were cheering and clapping when the dolphins would jump into the air like we were at Seaworld.

Four mile hike in the morning

Jackie and I went on a four mile hike this morning. The guy at the visitor center on Monday recommended that we take this walk and do the longer drive through tour during low tide because the birds and the alligators would more likely be out.

I'm sure that we both got a lot of exercise, but I don't know how successful we were at timing the birds and alligators. We only saw one alligator on the walk, they promise more on the driving tour which will have to be a different low tide.

We are confused as to how the fresh water refuge water levels relate to the salt water ocean tides... but we will figure that out before we leave.

On the hike, we learned about the "allegorical" mangrove tree. I call this allegorical because it is not "literally" rooted. The roots grow down from the branches and "hope" to find water.

Sometimes they do, like the ones on the right that are growing above the water.

Sometimes they don't, like the ones on the left that growing over the path.

There is a red mangrove and a white mangrove. I assume that is like a red oak and a white oak.

I also learned that I am more like a Gecko on Maui, and Jackie is more like the variety of elusive lizards on Sanibel. Geckos are slow and Floridian lizards scurry about quickly.

Jackie is scurrying (jogging) ahead of me in the picture on the right, while I poke along in my sandals looking for alligators and taking pictures of stuff.

Although it seems that she never stops, I do appreciate being pressured to exercise.